Happiness in your marriage starts with you!
Most of us were brought up idealizing marriage and believing that it’s our spouse’s responsibility to make us happy.
Me too!
If I ask for what I need the assumption is he should do it.
Sounds simple enough, right?
However, that’s not how relationships work.
Being attached to this idea that if things were different, if he was different then your marriage would be better, only makes you suffer more.
This is the cause of so many struggling marriages.
But it doesn't have to be this way!
You can learn how to have a thriving, happy, successful relationship.
AND you can do this without needing your husband on board.
Many women tell me….
I’ve brought up the idea of getting help for our marriage but my husband is completely opposed.
He thinks we should be able to figure it out on our own.
So you may be wondering how can things really get better if I’m the only person making change?
THE GOOD NEWS IS IT CAN.
ONE PERSON making change CAN CHANGE THE RELATIONSHIP!
It’s exactly how I changed my own marriage.
And you can too!
Coaching For Women
Hi, I’m Denise! I work with successful, growth minded women who want to make their marriage work and are willing to do this without waiting for their husband to be on board
Because once you make a shift in how you are being, your relationship will start to shift.
All relationships are a system and when one one part of the system changes, the whole system changes.
I help women make these shifts and changes on the inside, which influences and changes things on the outside.
This strategy EMPOWERS WOMEN, YOU, to be the creator of their life rather than letting life happen to them.
These shifts involve...
- Changing the way they think about their partner and themselves.
- Being more aware of the internal dialogue or self talk that holds them back. When we change the way we think about things we change our experience of things.
- Changing the way you respond to your partner when you don’t agree or he says something that’s triggering for you.
- Learning how to not take on your partner’s mood or behavior personally so you don't get swept up in trying to solve things that you don't have to solve.
- You want nothing more than to make your marriage work but you’re frustrated and exhausted.
Clients who have made these shifts, experience their marriage in a whole new way.
They describe renewed love and affection for each other.
Feeling more calm and confident in addressing issues.
Overall pleasure & ease being around each other.
Renewed hope for their future together.
If you’re a woman who’s committed to your own personal growth (with or without your partner)….
Open to discovering your part in the system that you might not recognize….
So you can find peace, happiness and fulfillment in your life and marriage, then my 1:1 coaching is for you.
So if you’re ready to start changing your marriage today send me a message and let’s talk about how I can help you.