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We’re Just So Different
I hear this from every woman or couple I work with. They think “we’re just so different” is the reason their relationship is not working. And wonder “how do we make this work when we can’t agree on anything”. Earlier in…
Everyday We Have Opportunities to GROW & EVOLVE Into a Higher Version of Ourselves
Not only in our marriage. In EVERY relationship we are a part of. From children, to parents, to the check out clerk at the grocery store, literally everyone we come in contact with. Through our relationships with other people we learn more about ourselves. …
5 Weeks Ago My Client Was Considering Divorce!
She was doubtful that doing the work ALONE would make a difference in her marriage. She was CONVINCED that her HUSBAND needed to participate in marriage coaching or it wouldn’t work. After just 5 sessions working together SHE IS SEEING BIG SHIFTS in her marriage just…
Wondering How to Convince Your Partner to Go to Marriage Counseling With You?
So the therapist can take your side. Tell your husband the same things you’ve been telling him for years. And hopefully, finally, he’ll see he’s wrong and HE’LL CHANGE? If you’re nodding your head in agreement. Like yes of course that’s exactly it.…
Why It’s Not Working
WHY ISN’T IT WORKING? Trying to change what you’re doing WITHOUT changing your beliefs and attitudes ONLY creates temporary change. You’ve been caught in a painful cycle of arguments. YOUR TRIGGERS ARE RUNNING THE SHOW. And without fail your weekend was ruined by…
You can react or respond in your marriage
LIVING YOUR LIFE IN REACTION TO THINGS YOU CAN’T CONTROL IS EXHAUSTING. Especially in your marriage. You wish that you didn’t get so hurt by things that your partner says or does? You DON’T have to! But you have to decide to CHANGE THE NARRATIVE…
Have You Forgotten to Listen?
THE reason YOUR HUSBAND is NOT talking to YOU is because you’re NOT LISTENING. You probably don’t even realize it. In fact you probably consider yourself a really good listener. But what happens when your husband says something you don’t like or don’t agree…
The real reason you can’t fix your MARRIAGE
The reason you haven’t been able to fix your marriage problems on your own is simply because you don’t know how. You’ve been trying for years but it’s not working and so you’re left thinking there must be something wrong with you. Let me assure you,…