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How Empathy Saved My Marriage
Couples Coaching

How Empathy Saved My Marriage

I consider myself a pretty empathic person. ​ I’m a therapist after all. ​ I’d make a pretty lousy therapist if I didn’t have empathy. ​ ​ ​ Yet when it came to my marriage. ​ Empathy was NOWHERE to

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50% of Marriages End in Divorce
Marriage Coaching

50% of Marriages End in Divorce

50% of marriages end in divorce 60% of second time marriages end in divorce. ​ Why are these stats so high? ​ I believe the real problem is that people don’t know how to be married. ​ ​ No one

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Why Couples Therapy Often Fails
Couples Coaching

Why Couples Therapy Often Fails

I get asked a lot, what’s the difference between therapy and coaching. People have lots of different explanations around this. ​ Some say therapy is more focused on the past and coaching is focused on the future. Some say therapy

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Do You Consider Yourself a Good Listener?
Couples Coaching

Do You Consider Yourself a Good Listener?

What about when it comes to your marriage? Do you listen to your partner like you would a good friend? Or is it more like you’re kinda listening but really thinking about how wrong they are and what you’re planning

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Couples Coaching

We’re Just So Different

I hear this from every woman or couple I work with. ​ ​ ​ They think “we’re just so different” is the reason their relationship is not working. ​ ​ ​ And wonder “how do we make this work when

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Marriage Coaching

Why It’s Not Working

WHY ISN’T IT WORKING? Trying to change what you’re doing WITHOUT changing your beliefs and attitudes ONLY creates temporary change.​ ​ You’ve been caught in a painful cycle of arguments. ​ ​ ​ YOUR TRIGGERS ARE RUNNING THE SHOW. ​

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Marriage Coaching

You can react or respond in your marriage

LIVING YOUR LIFE IN REACTION TO THINGS YOU CAN’T CONTROL IS EXHAUSTING. ​ ​ Especially in your marriage.​ ​ You wish that you didn’t get so hurt by things that your partner says or does?​ ​ You DON’T have to!​

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