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Why It’s Not Working
WHY ISN’T IT WORKING? Trying to change what you’re doing WITHOUT changing your beliefs and attitudes ONLY creates temporary change. You’ve been caught in a painful cycle of arguments. YOUR TRIGGERS ARE RUNNING THE SHOW. And without fail your weekend was ruined by…
You can react or respond in your marriage.
LIVING YOUR LIFE IN REACTION TO THINGS YOU CAN’T CONTROL IS EXHAUSTING. Especially in your marriage. You wish that you didn’t get so hurt by things that your partner says or does? You DON’T have to! But you have to decide to CHANGE THE NARRATIVE…
Have You Forgotten to Listen?
THE reason YOUR HUSBAND is NOT talking to YOU is because you’re NOT LISTENING. You probably don’t even realize it. In fact you probably consider yourself a really good listener. But what happens when your husband says something you don’t like or don’t agree…
The real reason you can’t fix your MARRIAGE
The reason you haven’t been able to fix your marriage problems on your own is simply because you don’t know how. You’ve been trying for years but it’s not working and so you’re left thinking there must be something wrong with you. Let me assure you,…
Stop Struggling In Your Marriage
WANT TO KNOW EXACTLY WHY YOU KEEP STRUGGLING IN YOUR MARRIAGE You think It’s because you can’t communicate. But the reason you can’t communicate is because you’re focused on the wrong things. You’re focused on changing your partner. You think HE needs to change…
Who’s Right…Who’s Wrong…Who Cares?
Do you think to yourself, If my partner would just see things my way (the right way) then you wouldn’t keep having the same stupid arguments? If I asked you what you were fighting about would you even remember? Probably not. You’re so committed…
Disagreements got you down?
Couples mistakenly believe they have to agree on things to resolve their issues, improve communication and make their relationship work. The same, I-feel-like-I’m-going-crazy kind of arguments come up over and over again. You start to wonder if you’re just too different to make it work….
How is COVID impacting your marriage?
You’re spending more time with your husband than you ever imagined you would (whether you like it or not). All of this unusual togetherness has put an enormous stress on a lot of marriages. The issues you had before covid have now become magnified. …